Lit by Clare 2nd November 2015
Hi Dad. Hope you're OK. Things aren't much easier here for us. I think everyone is coping in their own way. Whether that's by crying, bottling it up or simply acting as if you are still here. Everyone copes in different ways. Some people like to be busy. Others like to take time to be reflective. Some like to talk and others like to keep their thoughts to themselves. I guess it's how each person deals with your absence. Our loss will never go away and I don't suppose you ever knew really how much we all thought of you. I'd like to think you did ... but I just wish for me anyway, I had told you more. I love you Dad and I miss you being here so much. I can't believe you've gone. I keep seeing photo's popping up on my phone, from a year ago, 2 years ago and further back. You featured in all of them. You were with us then.. sharing in our fun, our quizzes, our activities, our birthdays and our milestones. You aren't here anymore and it's just so hard. I just want you to know that there isn't a single day when we don't think or talk about you. xxxxxx
This candle went out on 3rd December 2015.